A Space Tire Asked:
I’m a 31/M who has finally gotten sick of his life & lack of goals being reached in the dating world. I’ve never approached a girl in the Cancel wild(day game) before and I am slowly building up Bravery. But I’m scared. Thats the only time a man can be brave. So Here I go to begin my journey. I got a few things going for me, I’m an average looking guy. Girls seem to like my okcupid profile. So I should have no excuses other than my lack of charisma training. Love that term.
Today was the first day I actively went out to try to approach a girl. I had a loosely assembled plan in my head, but was unable to find any approachable girls on my lunch break earlier. No big deal, but just going out with intent has lifted my spirits out of a several month slump.
The last couple days I have been watching youtube videos and really enjoy the work Tyler Durden has put out. Man, that guy is one sharp individual and I dig his philosophy. The simple pick up channel, although humorous, has given me inspiration to try and day game. They have proven to me, that its not really about what you say, but how you say it.
Do you think day game is harder or easier than night gaming in social environments like bars/clubs? I ask, because it seems like girls have their bitch shields up more actively at night where they have an abundance of male suitors. Where as during the day, I may be the only person to approach her and she would feel more flattered. just my observation. Where do you recommend a complete noob start his journey?
My Answer : There are pros and cons to each, I love Night Game but that is because I like high energy venues.